"Let's talk about preparing for your engagement session, shall we?" I asked my soon-to-be-wed clients on our latest call. "I'll guide you through the process, but I also want your input. After all, these photos are your story."
The couple's excitement was evident in their voices. They were eager to get started, and I was just as eager to help them create beautiful memories.
Choosing the perfect outfits for an engagement session can be a daunting task. The key here is to be comfortable and feel like yourselves. Sure, you want to look your best, but don't let that mean changing who you are. If you're a jeans-and-tee kind of couple, don't feel pressured into a three-piece suit or ballgown. Stay true to your style. Your photos will reflect this authenticity.
When it comes to colors, I suggest avoiding overly bright, flashy hues. Instead, opt for soft, complimentary colors. If you're unsure, neutrals are always a safe bet. Also, try to coordinate your outfits without being too matchy-matchy. It's about creating harmony, not uniformity.
Next, we have the integral task of choosing your photo shoot location. This, too, should be very personal. Think of places that hold special meaning to your relationship. Maybe the park where you had your first date? Or the coffee shop where you spend lazy Sunday mornings? These locations will not only add a touch of personal sentiment to your photos but also make you feel more comfortable and relaxed during the shoot.
If no particular place comes to mind, don’t worry. We can always go for a scenic locale, like a beautiful garden or a rustic barn. In the end, the backdrop should complement your love story, not overshadow it.
Now, let's talk about posing. This is where many couples feel the most nervous. But let me reassure you, it's not about striking the perfect pose. It's about capturing your genuine connection and emotion. I'm here to guide you, but I want you to interact with each other naturally. Laugh, play, hug, kiss. These are the moments that make for the most beautiful and memorable photos.
Finally, it's also essential to approach the session with the right mindset. This is a celebration of your love and the beautiful journey you're about to embark on together. It's not just a photo shoot; it's a fun and intimate experience to share. Your joy and excitement will shine through in your photos, so relax and enjoy the moment.
As I ended the call, I felt a familiar rush of emotion. The opportunity to be part of their journey, to help them create these precious memories, was an honor I never took lightly. This was their story, and I was just there to help them tell it.
Every year, I meet dozens of couples, each with their unique love story. I've learned, grown, and yes, even made some mistakes along the way. But it's these experiences, these shared moments, that make my job so incredibly rewarding.
As I look forward to the year ahead, I can't help but feel excited about the new stories I'll help create, the new memories I'll help capture. Here's to another year of love, laughter, and unforgettable moments.